You hug her after weigh-ins. She made it. She’s relieved—you’re relieved. But deep down, something feels off. Her eyes look tired. She barely spoke this morning. And you're not sure if you're more proud… or worried.

In wrestling, success is often measured in ounces. That number on the scale can determine everything: a starting spot, a shot at state, a future in the sport. For parents, it’s hard not to get caught up in it. We all want the best for our kids—to see them thrive, compete, win. But sometimes, the cost of “making weight” is invisible until it becomes too heavy to carry.

In a groundbreaking move, New York has become the first state in the U.S. to sanction girls' high school wrestling as freestyle instead of folkstyle. This historic decision aligns with the style used in women's college wrestling, providing a seamless pipeline for young athletes aspiring to compete at higher levels. Despite facing significant skepticism, New York's bold step marks a pivotal moment in the evolution of girl's and women's wrestling.

We are often our own worst enemies with healed injuries. When we start noticing the inevitable progression towards competition nears closer and closer, and we start loosing our heads. Those last, critical steps towards a full recovery are missed, and we become anxious and over focused on being back to sport in full. What we don't realize is, we already have the tools in our pocket to be ready for competition. It is not the first time we are competing! But are our bodies ready to adapt to the demands we must place on it? 

No matter what level you are on currently, reaching your next level or goal comes from introspection and learning how and where you can make improvements. However, as you start exploring where you can make changes as an athlete, it is important to not fall into the trap of what you expect the end results to be, or how you should look getting there. Here are my top 5 training myths for reaching a higher level. 

For every sport competition, we have our typical packing list of must haves: uniform, food, water, lucky socks. But the more we compete, the more we find ourselves in situations where we didn't have what we needed. And even though we try and buffer for most situations, not everyone knows what to pack just in case. Here are the 5 items you should never forget to bring with you to a competition.

In competitive sports, the mind is just as important as the body. Coaches know the importance of strength, conditioning, and technique, but mental performance is often an underdeveloped area for both the athlete and the coach. As times shift and we’ve become more aware of what creates a well rounded athlete ready to perform at high levels, so must we shift into a new phase of education for coaches. Integrating mindfulness and mental training into your team's routine can help athletes stay calm under pressure, perform with clarity, and build stronger team bonds.

I seriously, seriously appreciate the honesty that athletes approach me with when they want advice on injuries. I can hear the genuine fear of falling behind in their voices. Having faced that same fear myself, I want to offer insight into the proactive steps athletes can take, even when it’s tempting to sit on the sidelines and wait for clearance to wrestle again.

Warming up for competition is a non-negotiable part of any athlete’s routine, yet maintaining energy levels throughout a long competition day is often overlooked. Managing energy across multiple rounds ensures you're mentally and physically prepared to perform at your peak in every match. From the initial morning warm-up, through re-warming between matches, to cooling down afterward, each phase is essential for recovery and staying "in the zone."

As athletes, we all have our fears—those little voices in our heads that say, “What if I mess up?” or “What if I lose?” Whether it’s freezing up on the mat, letting ourselves down, or worrying about disappointing our coaches, fear is something we wrestle with every day. And the truth is, it doesn’t just go away as you get better at the sport. In fact, those fears can get louder. But here’s the game-changer: you don’t have to get rid of them. You just have to learn how to live with them.

Rehydrating after weigh-ins is a critical step for an athlete to ensure their body is ready for competition. Wrestlers, whether they're beginners or seasoned competitors, need to pay special attention to how they manage their hydration after weight-ins as well as throughout the entire competition day.

Wrestling has a stigma about weight cutting, and often the wrestling community is perpetuating it ourselves. In my opinion, it is emphasized much too heavily and much too young. Through competing, coaching, and educating young wrestlers about the sport, I have observed that our young athletes are taught they might only be successful if they compete at a lower weight. The number of males and females I've spoken to who have decided not to continue their career onto a collegiate or international level, have mostly been due to burn out from weight cutting. When does it become impractical to maintain a weight class? Should our minds, bodies, technique, and love for the sport suffer? This post is meant to be a guide for young athletes to navigate the pressures they may be receiving to cut weight.

Choosing the right college wrestling program is a significant decision, particularly for female athletes. Beyond the typical considerations, such as academic fit and team culture, there are unique challenges and opportunities that female wrestlers and their families must navigate in today's evolving wrestling landscape.

As a beginner wrestler, how do you become effective in competition without obsessing over learning every technique? When we focus solely on the need to perfect technique, it can often prevent you from seeing the big picture. What is sport, but accepting the challenge from another competitor to compete to your best abilities? By simplifying the idea of sport, we can focus on being a fierce competitor, and focus on where to position yourself for the best advantage. I've seen many great wrestlers who learned how to be tough competitors without high level technique. In good time, the technique will come with work and repetition.